'When I'm told I have daddy issues because I married a successful older man, it's my father I feel for' Marrying a banker 30 years her senior was the best decision our anonymous author ever made Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart have a 22-year age-gap Credit: Getty Mostly, it’s my father I feel sorry for. When people find out my husband is a successful banker who is 30 years older than me, they often assume I have daddy issues. It’s ridiculous. My own dad has always been a wonderful role model – and in an era where we’re supposed to be breaking down barriers around who you can love, I’m tired of getting a knowing smirk when all I did was marry the most impressive man I’ve ever met.