comment that on the last day of carl's life, he was -- there was an incident at school, and the school did not inform me. and to this day, i don't know why the school did not call me and say that my son was threatened, his life was threatened. and the mediation for that day was he had to sit down with the person that was bullying him and for the rest of the week they had to have lunch together. and when i asked the director of the school why would you allow some -- allow this to happen, she said that's what we do for mediation. >> well, that's actually incredibly irresponsible. and it's a real -- it doesn't help your kid, and it makes the problem worse, actually, when a school does something like that. what i would say also is that, you know, schools have been -- have been very focused on wanting to do assemblies for kids, but we don't as much want to do it for the faculty. so one of the things i do, and i'm working with kids is i say i just met with -- if it's true, right? is that i just met with your faculty for four hours or six hours or i met with them for