his sons, david and anthony, and their families, lizzie and chris, his grandchildren and, most of all, kati, a friend to us all and someone who understood and loved richard so well. the family they built together casts light on so many people. there is a book of early jewish wisdom. the book of ben sira which includes this passage. with three things i am delighted, for they are pleasing to the lord and to men. harmony among brethren, friendship among neighbors, and the mutual love of husband and