body. >> jacob is transgender. >> the doctor said that we had a girl. >> clearly a girl. >> yeah. we started thinking of girl names. >> mia was born in 2010. >> go to dada. [ laughter ] >> mia, umm, really wanted to change her clothes a lot. right. constantly, like 12 times a day. >> but then the sweater came and she became obsessed about wearing this one garment for six months straight over the ballet tutu. over the christmas clothes. in hindsight what i think she was trying to do was dispel a sense of discomfort in her the way her image was being shown to the world. >> she would take on boy