we are just giving more time, that would have we would've been close again, that you know that mom and son duo that we were. but we didn't have the time. it was ripped away from us. and i'll never get it back. >> aaron, the elder son had more of a take charge reaction. >> i did take care of my brother, take care my dad. >> logistics, the grief you get absorbed. >> yeah for me, as just kind of the way my brain is wired, i guess. >> within hours, the griffiths would head from all directions from which would be an anchor in their lives, the family home. >> just gave my dad a big. we were both crying, we were like, i can't believe this would happen? >> keith's best friend, greg bradley was airline support. >> i will see, the first time i saw to identify. >> he was still shaking. >> as if the news couldn't get any worse, the griffiths great dane cleo, along with a second that daisy and also perished in the blaze. dragon keith walked the property surveying the damages. >> when we get to the koi pond, it was like got to get those