Article content The setbacks were crushing. And there were many. For six years, as biology fought against desire, Katie and Todd Cox struggled to have a child. We apologize, but this video has failed to load. Try refreshing your browser, or Infertile Ground: The trauma and desperation of infertility Back to video By the time their son Benjamin finally arrived, after years of tears and painful disappointment, they had spent more than $70,000 on treatments and related travel. “Definitely, it was something I didn’t think I’d be able to get over if I wasn’t a mom,” said Katie, 44.