ADVERTISEMENT Isn't it time we stop suggesting that a smart woman marrying a member of a royal family is good news? Listen to Holly on Mamamia Out Loud, Mamamia’s podcast with what women are talking about this week. Post continues below. We didn't learn that lesson after Princess Diana, even when her "fairytale" ended with her adolescent sons being forced to walk behind her coffin at a funeral beamed around the world into millions of strangers' homes. We didn't learn it after Fergie - Sarah Ferguson, not the Black Eyed Pea - was taunted as the 'Duchess Of Pork' because she was never 'princess thin', or when she was ridiculed and humiliated repeatedly for daring to try to make a living after divorcing a Prince of most questionable character (Prince Andrew, enough said).