Sarah Gonzales for NPR toggle caption Sarah Gonzales for NPR "You may be grateful that you have your health and still very disappointed about the losses of this year," says Thema Bryant-Davis, a psychologist. "And one doesn't cancel out the other." Sarah Gonzales for NPR When Dana Tamim made the difficult decision to cancel her wedding in August, she was crushed. "Honestly, I don't think that I'm ever going to get over it," she says. The 24-year-old lives in Montreal and is Muslim. In her religion, she says, "you can't really live with someone unless you're married." But Tamim and her fiancé had already signed the lease for a new apartment. They ended up having a quick ceremony to make things legal, so they could move in together.