Share 'So, if I ever meet even strangers at a dinner party and they're talking about wanting to do IVF, I give them my number and say 'ask me anything,' because it would have been really nice to have that. 'And these women well up because there's some kind of weird taboo around it. It's a boy! The Torn singer, 46, welcomed her first child, a son named Max, after undergoing IVF with a sperm donor aged 44 in 2019 'I think for a lot of women it's kind of like 'oh can I talk to you' and they come up to me like that. It's like I've become a trailblazer and I wasn't even trying to be.'