here? >> who gets to eat and when becomes a pressing concern to the two of us. >> can we get the kids eating? can we hand out the food? >> in a local culture like this, first ladies serve the men. >> right. >> then the kids eat later. because it's like a custom. >> it may not be our system, but it's a system. >> the kids are getting ready for theirs over there. >> and it becomes clear that, yes, everybody will eat. ♪ >> there we go. come to, daddy. that's good. you picked a bad time to become a vegetarian. you really did. the food is amazing. there's some really good cooks that work here today. i mean really amazing. and then the music starts and