>> right. >> so even if you say starting today i've learned my lesson and going forward i'll never do this, how do you win the trust of the people in that locker room? you're their leader. how do you win their trust? and it isn't just the black players. the majority of white players regard the black players and the black players regard the white players as their brothers in arms, their teammates. you see the way these people feel about each other. players in every sport. whatever their background and cultural differences may be, when they come together as a team they begin to see each other as teammates and also as vijds, not as representatives of a group but as individuals. and they create bonds of affection and connection and respect. you can't have someone at the top of that organization that doesn't reflect those values. >> yeah. the fallout from this is remains to be seen and we're going to watch it play out live. thank you. the legendary bob costas joining us. >> it up, don. >> here's our breaking news. coach of the las vegas raiders jon gruden resigning tonight, in