okay. great to have all of you with us. i love these kinds of topics. stephanie, let me start with you. it also found that women who tooted their own horn were more likely to get promoted. hey, that works with men and it works with women. i mean that's just reality, isn't it? >> well, i want to call bs on this study, erin. i don't know. what is the point? how big a bowl of bitchy do we have to eat in the morning to be taken seriously? do we have to drink an entire gallon of carnation instant bitch? can you not be a nice person and succeed? i'm the boss of the stephanie miller show. and on xm serious. and my co-hosts and friends on my show, we've been friends for many, many years and we socialize together and, you know, i just think this sounds very retro to me. >> i might ask them. they may say, look, what we love about stephanie is she can be a nasty, you know what. that's why we love her. all right. thanks, erin. >> dean, in all seriousness, i know you disagree with the point