that indeed he was the aggressor, these classic signs of domestic abuse and control. i just wanted to play again a part of the body cam video from the incident that police say and give you a chance to tell me exactly what you mean. here it is. >> we've been fighting all morning, and he wouldn't let me in the car before. >> why wouldn't he let you in the car? >> he told me i needed to calm down. but i'm perfectly calm. i'm calm all the time, and he really stresses me out. it's a rough morning. >> she just gets worked up sometimes. i try to distance myself from her, so i locked the car and walked away from her. what happened this morning is she's trying to set up her own website blog. we really had a nice morning if anything, but she just got worked up. >> so, jim, obviously there's a lot more where that came from, but what do you see? >> well, first of all, the dramatic difference in what