real vane of sadness in her life because she was the third-born girl in a family where her father desperately wanted -- um -- wanted to have a boy. and so, that was the root of a profound insecurity that she never was ever really able to fully deal with. >> i want to play another clip from the first episode. here it is, sally. >> despite their surface differences, young diana and young charles are actually pretty united. the desire to feel safe, the desire to control your environment, the desire to be in a solid structure. all of that goes back to imperfect parents, unmaternal mothers, distant fathers. and the feeling of being an unwanted child. >> um, would you agree with all that? i mean, you know, when you hear