or sadness. how do you manage that? >> well, for me it's my wife and kids that's very important. they come and talk with me and so on. the grandchildren as well. so that's very good. it's very good. we have things to do on the weekend and that's also very good as well. >> so it has been for you a little over four years since you suffered a stroke. and i know that it happened suddenly, as they do, in your home. you were getting ready one morning. your wife called 911. and for you, general, you spent two months in the hospital. i know that the stroke affected the entire right side of your body. and you're talking about, just even here in this conversation, going to the stroke center, still going through the therapy. it seems as if a recovery is