focus of tremendous attention. >> yeah. i spent the first half of my career being accused of being gay when i hadn't had anything like a gay relationship and in fact i was 27 before that happened to me so i spent my years growing up being told what me sexuality was really, you know, which is kind of confusing. and then by the time i kind of work out what it was and i stopped having relationships with women i was just so indignant the way i had been treated until then, i'll just hold on to this, i don't think i should have to tell them but this is as good a time as any. >> i think he just told me he's gay. did you just tell me he's gay? >> what is it you want to say? i want to say that i had no problem with people knowing that i have a relationship with a man right now. i have not been in a relationship with a woman for almost ten years.