it's all about planning and investing the right way. >> taking the time before you have to go accept money and become public if you have to, have a plan in place. >> or disappear as willie would say. >> on the list of problems one can have, i'm sorry, this would be one of the better ones to have to deal with. >> exactly. we'll take it. thank you, john berman. >> there is a solution. coming up next on "new day," we dare you -- we dare you to not tear up over this one. a military mom comes home from afghanistan and surprises her daughter on the football field. we'll talk to both of them in our next hour. you're going to love this one. >> a story that will make you tear up for a different reason. miley cyrus is looking like a top choice for halloween. we'll tell you what your young girls might be asking you for this halloween. i'll give you aรง personal tutorial in how to say no.