just like paying the bills, how does the food get in. you've seen the security. just the basics of everyday life. >> reporter: the second gentleman also talked extensively about the notion of being comfortable with taking a back seat to his wife. being okay with the fact that she has a very big job. and right now, his only job is to support her. he said he wants to be a role model for other men to show you can have a healthy ego and still be okay with being in your female partner's shadow. we'll also get an exclusive tour on the grounds of the naval observatory where the second couple lives. you don't want to miss it tonight. amara and boris. >> dana bash, thank you so much. also this weekend, join stanley tucci as he lore explor lagoria, apologize if i miss