no words can explain how spoiled she is. >> does it make you understand why i am the way i am? >> it does. >> why? >> yes, absolutely. >> because? >> because she's spoiled, you're spoiled. >> i'm not spoiled. >> she spoiled you. >> did you spoil me? >> yes. >> mom, you look really cute tonight. what happened? >> i'm always cute. >> always! >> excuse me? oh, my god. >> yeah. >> it took something to come down here though, it really did. >> yeah. >> it has kind of helped me out, it really has. >> yeah. what do you say to the folks at home? you and i talked about, you know, anderson is doing this series on grief and how to be resilient. >> yes. >> and has that helped you? >> by you talking and encourage on encourageing me to come here. it course i have flashes, it