we're having is really about taking guns from everybody. >> it's not. >> or the other reality -- >> that's a huge misconception. people think you all it's finding those common grounds to get people together, but the nra cannot defeat us on background checks, straight up. they have to associate it with an extreme end point in order to muddy the waters. when they do have a genuine background check conversation, the average american thinking this makes sense, this ought to be done everywhere. >> my husband ryan kirby was killed by a man who was diagnosed with schizophrenia. he sent his girlfriend to buy the gun, and killed my husband right away you have to ask, how can a mentally ill person who is