that i carry around with me. it's a solid gold coin. >> amazing. >> and he's cool. and he just -- we always got it. we've done i don't know now, 53 years together or something like that. and i got him one day on something. i had just come back from "gatsby" and going back to england. it was the year that sunderland won the cup. >> i love the fact you know so much about soccer. >> weren't they a fourth division team? >> second division but they should never have won the cup. >> but they did. and he said, i was looking at you you watch soccer all the time. you're a chelsea fan. he says, i've been to london. he says, and i've stayed in the chelsea hotel in the village. it's a hippy fleabag. is chelsea like that? was the town named after that hotel? and i said no. and he wondered where sunderland was. and i said, well, it's way in west iowa. >> when you're with your daughter, who's a fabulous actress. >> she's terrific. >> do you talk movies, the craft of making movies, the technique?