my life that had wound up betraying me, attacking me, or in some way trying to exploit me. so i started kind of writing about who are these people? just writing for myself. and i started seeing some patterns, and it turns out that these type people that i call baiters, which is just a term that stands for back stabbers, abusers, imposters, you just go right on down the line, to takers, exploiters, and reckless because they're reckless with your life. you just go right on down the line, and you find out that there are characteristics, traits, and profiles that characterize these people. >> as you're talking, i'm sure a lot of people are experiencing this. you're immediately thinking of people like this in your own life. the goal, i would imagine, is to get rid of those people in your life, which is probably easier said than done. >> it is easier said than done. but one of the things that we have to learn to do -- i'll tell you, the reason i decided to go