first, and where are you going? don't ask me. okay. but with time it evolved, and now it's like all right, get your bags ready, babe, we're going here. >> when you're at club functions, do you feel like you can speak openly and freely? >> you know, i'm with my man and i'm quiet and i never went up to other guys. a lot of it is common sense. you don't do it. it's disrespectful. >> you don't ask questions about their business. it's none of our business. >> i would be a terrible old lady, though. [ laughter ] >> why? >> because i just need to know everything. >> curiosity. >> yeah. >> so here is a question, were you ever concerned about your safety when you're part of the club? >> i feel the safest. my man is a hard ass, i love him for that. it's like a high school cliche, every girl wants a bad boy, you