puts me on the back burner or that i'm less than. >> i've been in a position where i felt like the club did come first, and where are you going? don't ask me. okay. but with time, it evolved, and now it's like all right, get your bags ready, babe, we're going here. >> when you're at club functions, do you feel like you can speak openly and freely? >> you know, i'm with my man and i'm quiet and i never went up to other guys. a lot of it is common sense. you don't do it. it's disrespectful. >> you don't ask questions about their business. it's none of our business. >> i would be a terrible old lady, though. [ laughter ] >> why? >> because i just need to know everything. >> curiosity. >> yeah. >> so here is a question, were you ever concerned about your safety when you're part of the club? >> i feel the safest. my man is a hard ass, i love him