unreachable. >> we really thought that she >> who can say what lurks out had gone, kind of lost hope i there past the horizon, waiting guess. utterly at random as thousands >> back in indiana that night, of lives tick to their the news ever worse, john turned unknowning end. on his computer and read that and simple coincidence, a young last e-mail from zach. >> he sent it literally ten man from middle america made a minutes before the earthquake single decision. hit, birthday greeting. >> could you imagine back there >> and said what? >> happy birthday, love you. in indiana that you're about to >> it said much more than that, make your life flip on its head? though. >> no, never. >> dearest rock inpoppy, happy >> how could he know that on the birthday. other side of the world a young woman made exactly the same whoo hoo, the wig five-oh. the more and more time we spend decision or that they'd meet practically on the eve of one of apart the more i realize how amazing of a father and friend the biggest natural disasters in recent memory? you have been to me over the years and have always given me a or how could he know that in the middle of disaster he'd lose her. perfect example of how a man an >> i wouldn't know what i would do without her. husband is to treat a woman and his wife. >> so coincidence, love, i was thinking, god, is this the disaster. last thing i hear from my son, you know.