we came home. on the way home i said to her, you know, hey, you know know -- i want to have sex. i said to her, hey, how about you put on an outfit. i think it might have set her off. >> he wanted her to put on a little sexy costume of some kind, huh? >> correct. >> the fear of intimacy that i thought she was working on getting over, it was gone. but apparently that set her off, because she picked a fight. >> as matt tells it, the fight continued at home and ramped up. matt's father, who was visiting from new york, was just down the hall. when the argument touched on the way nique had supposedly been treating her father-in-law, matt asked his dad to weigh in. >> he called his father matthias into the bedroom and basically asked matthias to tell nique how he felt about being down there, and that matthias came out with a line that he hadn't felt welcome, that kind of stuff, and that nique reacted to that by basically saying he was lying. >> then matt said his wife did something off the wall. >> i mean, holy cow. she rips