little funny. but when she took them off, i thought she was beautiful. >> it was a classic case of opposites attracting. >> i think we both went into the relationship knowing that we really loved spending time with one another. >> tom was the laid-back, easy-going type. dar an elementary school teacher was more type a, and she didn't hide what she was thinking. >> she had opinions, and she'd let those be known. it's one of the reasons i loved her. i still love her today. >> still, when dar's sisters, la donna, lynn and marla learned that dar and tom intended to marry, they were left scratching their heads. >> my famous saying was, there's got to be something wrong with tom for him to stay with dar. >> because you couldn't do it. >> no. >> no. >> you couldn't be around somebody who was, what, that much the center of attention? >> no. >> telling you what to do. >> that controlling.