diplomatic and international level as well. the commonwealth wouldn't be the way it was. unless she hadn't done it the way she was. and there were 90 countries in its, and there are 56 now. the way she manage that was without being too stereotyped, but as a sort of matriarch, she met the rulers of each countries at the commonwealth at the summit. as long as she was able to do so individually and she brought a calming quality to the most erratic trouble and foolish politicians. and i think the policy has shaped the role of the monarchy and that is what her heirs have to live up to. >> katie it's interesting what suzannah says because there's all sorts of studies how women are better listeners and compromiser's. how would you characterize the way that the queen represented