BEDFORD -- 'Do you want to be a Catholic woman leader?' That question gave Lynne O'Connor pause when she came across it in an online advertisement in 2011. She was a Harvard graduate with a 30-year career in management consulting. She had taught catechesis for elementary school through confirmation classes, but she did not consider herself a leader of Catholic women. The advertisement was for a conference held by Women of Grace, an apostolate for Catholic women that combines faith formatio