Backlog of adoptions america, but it makes something that sounds very simple and easy, you illustrate that is more complicated than that. >> absolutely. to answer your question, where does the responsibility lie for reaching out to and featuring birth mother voices. i'd say that responsibility lies with the people who are mentioning adoption. in that context, if you will mention adoption, if you will suggest that people do it, that is a great time to bring in a birth parent. sometimes their perspective might align with yours, or they're trying to mount. you have done the honest thing in that m...