What was it? >> i was five and a half months pregnant, and i thought, you know, if something happens to him over there, i would at least like our son -- we knew we were having a boy -- to see the words "i love you" on a page and the word "daddy." i thought he would write a page or two, but he became obsessed with this journal. he wrote about the power of prayer, why he loved me, why he wanted a son. he told me about life lessons on the war zone, how to treat a woman on a date. he made an exercise program for him. on the last page he wrote a letter that essentially said, this is everything i co...