Dear How to Do It, I have been dating a guy for more than a year. At the beginning, we said that we would wait a year before we talked about him meeting my kids or any real talk about the future. We had an amazing sex life. Never tired of one another; he gets an instant erection by just being near me. The sex is hot to say the least, and both of us have said that it is the best sex of our lives. I’m five years older than he is, but we had some kinky sex talk where I called him daddy and he called me his good girl, etc.