Deesha Philyaw profile: How the Secret Lives of Church Ladies author got published.
As a girl in Jacksonville, Florida, Deesha Philyaw imagined the sex lives of the grown Black women around her. The churches Philyaw grew up attending—African Methodist Episcopal, Baptist, Pentecostal, Church of God in Christ—all forbid sex before marriage. But what did the unmarried church ladies do? Did they masturbate? If they had secret sex, would they go to hell? And the married women: Did they enjoy sex? Were they as dull as they seemed, or did they live double lives? These questions, Philyaw knows now, were really about herself—about what possibilities were open to her, and what k...