Itâs an intensely personal question: What do you do when you lose one of the most important people in your life? Miranda Smith searched for the answer for a few months after her grandmotherâs death two years ago. But she knew sheâd found it as soon as she saw the Ulman Foundationâs advertisement in her Instagram feed. Peggy Smith, known to her family as âJam,â had been more like a third parent than a grandparent in Mirandaâs childhood. Her house was where Smith spent summers while her parents were working. The relationship never faltered from there. Even as ...