You think of spying to bring down an enemy. in this case you're trying to protect the person you love the most. >> it is a good idea then to have the conversation. you don't want your children hiding things and doing whatever they might be doing online secretly? >> well, no. if you tell them you're going to be monitoring them hopefully some self-awareness kicks in and from the beginning they won't do things or visit websites they wouldn't want you to find out about. >> how much of a good idea is it to get familiar with some of the teen language you see online. something like p.a.w., when you s...