System and i mean this is the thing i think that if you look at oppression as a systemic institutionalized i mean i just asked him i said you re a black man on for thousands of years they told you because based on the call of you. inferior but right now if a white man came and told you you are inferior to me because of the. right but for thousands of years you us of those believe the same thing so for me it s a very clear indication that they understand the systemic nature of how violent the systems are but because patriarchy for the most part appears to benefits men. then they re just like ok well you know sexism racism yeah that s bad but you know sexism well but women need to just be a little bit more patient would you have been patients if like you said you know what you re less would you think ok i m negotiating with you please let me be kind to you know you would very quickly counter that narrative and it s the same thing because sexism is a systemic as violent as racism is a sto ....