But Bender's family is questioning the officer's use of lethal force. "Justice really needs to be served," said Tammy Bender, his mother. "This is not fair, not fair at all. The officer he should have used a Taser. He did not have to shoot my son in his back." The San Bernardino Police Department released a video on youtube Thursday afternoon. They say in a bystander video you can see Bender holding the gun when he stands up, which is when the officer believed Bender would shoot first. That's when the shooting happened. The San Bernardino' County District Attorney is reviewing whether the sho...