The option to take care of yourself and perhaps lessen th pain of the baby >> when we had found out, it was right before christmas, an it was very heartbreaking, because i knew the next couple of months was not going to b easy both mentally and physically i dealt with a lot of, i'm still dealing with a lot o depression and exciting, and just the physical pain the pregnancy because there is n amniotic fluids. there was no cushion for the baby the baby was pushing up on m ribs and my srm, i round ligament it was very painful, and i was like, i can't take any medicin because i still am pregnant.