The myth of finding the ‘right’ person
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One of the biggest fallacies in romantic relationships is that you just need to “find the right person” to marry.
On one level, this sort of thinking tends to exempt us from being the “right” person.
To some extent, we make others the focus and remove ourselves from growing and maturing to be the kind of per- son others should be looking for.
It’s a type of narcissism that suggest there’s little to no improvement necessary from our end.
The vast majority of advice on love and dating is externally focused, either telling people how to find the ideal person or how to change the person they have into the ideal partner. ....