but she saw it on tv and she e-mailed and she said, there is nothing i can do in texas. i feel so helpless. what can i do to help these people and these poor women waiting for their men folk? so she came up with the idea that one of the miner's wives, her partner had proposed to her in a letter for a catholic wedding so donna in texas said, i know what i can do, i'm a seamstress so i'm going to make her the most beautiful wedding dress. she's now in that process. on top of that she goes down to the church every night and lights 33 candles. i think that's just a good example of how people went beyond the reality tv, this kind of morbid, voi you'ueristic approaches. i don't know what yours were.