myself is the tool i have to use to get this part. it's almost chilling to think how this kind of behavior requires a sort of internalization of shame and a desire to be considered somebody whose value is how sexy and pretty you are. >> i want to interrupt, because one of the things i was struck by is what you did, and so many other women did, if women were able, they did stand their ground. people said i am not comfortable with that and i will not do that, and you did that. you said i am not comfortable taking off my clothes, even for the part you are promising me. >> absolutely. i look back on the 20-year-old i was then, and i am not sure -- there was some quiet voice inside of me that whispered get out now, and i will confess that