in terms of like coping with like other people's losses, i think finding community is like a really big, really important part. i've had sleep overs, i can't tell you how many houses of survivors, sitting up all night talking, talking about our experience, laughing about other things, but being with the community is such an important part. >> what do you hope people takeaway from today moving forward? >> i hope that people understand that it's not just an issue that effects certain areas. you know, parkland is a pretty privileged area, and if you look at it, i remember even weeks before the shooting happened, i was like nothing would ever happen in parkland. i remember my dad even telling me like in case scenarios because we were expectsing a shooting drill, in that case scenario, duck down. i was like i'm never going to need this.