>> lee tells me like his brothers, he's never dated anyone. and if he follows through and commits to a vow of celibacy, he never will. >> there are guys in seminary now who have experienced intimacy with a woman. you haven't. but you're kind of okay right now with the fact that it could never happen? >> yep. right now i'm okay with it. >> while lee may never experience physical intimacy, father matthias has. and yet now feels blessed by its absence. >> celibacy is a gift. it's not something that someone can just voluntarily do on their own. it's got to be given from god. >> and while he could have chosen a wife, he's happier celebrating marriage as a priest. >> i've actually found as a priest more fulfillment and more joy than i ever thought possible.