17 Ways to Get Wet During Sex Step 1: lube, lube, and more lube. Aug 2, 2021 In case you weren't aware, vaginas are pretty f*cking amazing. And while yes, they do extraordinary things like musical instruments, sometimes you just want them to get a lil bit more wet. Self-lubrication for a lot of women is a hit or miss. Sometimes, no matter how much you want to get wet, it just doesn't happen—which really is a damn shame because it can make all the difference in the world when it comes to having good sex. "Inadequate lubrication can lead to painful sex which might make you want to avoid sex altogether," says ob-gyn Shristy Mohanty.