phone call between gibson and his exgirlfriend oksana grigorieva. cnn confirmed that the female voice is hers, she claims the male voice is gibson's. let's listen right now. >> i really am angry and really sad, and i really [ bleep ] just want to hurt someone or myself, do you under? you've done this to me. i was never like this. you did it. all right? it's your fault. if something happens, be it on your [ bleep ] head. you know? i don't do -- >> put it on your head. >> i didn't do anything. >> you did so. you're a [ bleep ]. mary margaret from radar online. first of all, thanks for providing that new tape. the tone seems different. in some of the other tapes we've heard an exasperated mel gibson.