pressure, when we're just fed information that encourages some of our worst instincts, we tend to fall back into some of the old racial fears and racial divisions and racial stereo types, and it's very hard for us to break out of those and to listen, and to think about people as people. and to imagine being in that person's shoes. and, by the way, it's no longer a black and whitie issue alone. you got hispanic folks and asian folks, this is not just the same old battles that -- we've got this stew that's bubbling up from people everywhere and we have to make sure that we in our own lives and families and work places do a better job of