norm. and i hope that we can change that. >> so this is my story. in 2001, the environment was a lot different because of the dotcom crash. i was faced with raising more money or letting go of employees. so one time, i had he ordered a 5,000 dollar bottle of wine, and i couldn't even remember how many times the glass got filled. all of sudden, he was conveying to me how attracted he was to me, tried to lean over to kiss me, and i pulled away. i'll never forget when he touched me under the table, and, like, looked into my eyes and grabbed my leg and squeezed it, and said, you know, i'm going to help you, i'm going to do this for you. i said -- like he was my savior or something, and at the same time, he's violating me. >> i was lucky enough to have a