>> intimacy. is that something that people focus on here? >> no. >> i didn't think that you were going to say that. i thought that it was a u dumb question. >> reporter: this is a delhi-basedoualned author who writes abo love and masculinity. >> when you marry, you marry the entirele family. and my generations previous to it is intimacy is something that i ask what are we talking about, because i provide and look at after you, so what is intimacy. >> and have you answered that question for yourself? >> yes. [ laughter ] >> intimacy is a fairly modern concept today for younger people, and it is something that they are building. >> so i find it very counter intuitive that there are young women talking openly about sex, and what they want. >> women who wore the sar ri r