obstacles. our anonymous father is an insurance agent he wanted to look after his daughter when she was little but his company refused to play along. with the boss said no he was very disparaging to the whole idea of real men don't look after kids that's women's work might as well start wearing stockings. it was really nasty you know what it was to want to look after your children as well his prejudices were ironclad an antiquated they don't belong in the present day and age but that was no consolation. since he had to continue feeding his family he stuck it out. not everybody can just find another job i couldn't moving to a different department would have been hard for me taking parental leave only to face years of punishment at work afterwards is not such a great idea. as to your gas misson after he left the e.c.b.