left without any explanation, and so the suddenness of this, the cruel varabilities of this, how could this have happened in this classroom and not that one. why to my friend and not someone else's friend or vice versa, these are universal questions that don't depend as much on age and what we have is the capacity often to reasons through it. so illogical conclusions can come to kids and they need to test out with their parents fot related to anything bad you you did. no, you couldn't have done anything in order to save the people there and we are looking out for you, but you want to be out the look route for, is there an i remembrratio idea in my kid's head. i'll be in a colleague's office asap.